Well I have not heard from Rex… I asked my friends who were there if I acted wierd or anything. They told me that was not the case and I hope that they would tell me the truth. BEFF suggested that I make the next contact, but I do not think that I want too. First because he was doing the old fashioned thing and taking the lead, which I liked. And second, if he is not that crazy about me I would rather find that out now rather than later… 
And yes I know that it was not that long ago but with the previous pattern I would have thought that he would have called, emailed, or something… Hmmm
Posts Tagged ‘one date curse’
Hmmm
While searching for the love of my life…
For those of you who don’t know I am searching for the love of my life in the best place that there can be…online. It is not like I haven’t tried it before but I have never been successful. I guess I have never had any success in dating at all.
I have what I would like to call a first date disease. For those that may not have this problem let me explain what it is. You meet a guy, you email the guy back and forth, you then have some great phone conversations where you both laugh and enjoy each other…Finally you set up a time to meet. That is where I can’t decide where my problem lies because I do have a canceling symptom. It seems that some guys figure out that I may pass the one date curse onto them and they decide that it is not even worth meeting me. If they do decide to meet me, we have a great date.
By that I mean that there is more laughing and lots of banter, some flirting, nothing to much special I mean it is a first date. I think where the disease really shows up is in the goodbye. I am usually ready to leave before something goes wrong and I tell them how much fun I have had… then I give them a hug. I am not that huggy to someone that I do not know, so they should be happy with that! he he. Anyways no second date is ever had and usually that is the last of the contact from them.
I think that I am a very fun person. I have a normal social life and get along with a lot of people. It might be that I don’t gush over the boys and they take it as though I am not that interested. Even if I might not be crazy about them I would still like to give them another shot with a second date. (not all would get a second date, but you know what I mean) There are too many boys missing out on me. I do have my quirks, but I would say that I am pretty normal. Who doesn’t like their birthday cake to have confetti.
