I do not feel like updating the blog, I have not written in a while… But the reason that I want to write today is because tomorrow, I have a date that I am excited about. I say date, but it is really a first meeting. He was the one that wanted to call it a date. I don’t really count it as a date until after we have met each other and want to go out again.
We have not been communicating that long, about three weeks. We emailed and then I gave him my number. We talked a little bit and then the other day I was getting bored so I told him we should met by email. He called yesterday and it was fun. We were both nervous, it was sweet conversation that left me giddy. (I am proud that I am letting myself get happy without getting attached.)
He is fun to talk to on the phone and he seems to have a back story that does not contain drama. We have talked a little about our growing up and so far I was the bad teenager. He was relatively sweet. We are both dorky I can tell you that, but I think that I might be more social. The one thing that he said was that he was a video gamer… And then defended himself by saying it did not control his life, but I am a little nervous that it might be a bigger part of his life than he realizes. But hey, as long as it doesn’t affect me, I don’t care. There is nothing wrong with it.
I am not worried about much, and I think that my mind-set right now is good. I am interested, but if it doesn’t work out, I will move on freely.
We are going to meet on the boardwalk where there are a lot of things to do. I think we might end up riding the roller coaster so I need to wear pants and ok shoes (I would rather wear cuter shoes). I think that I know what I would like to wear, but it all depends on the weather.. I hope its warm with a breeze. That would be great! I also know that the date will be a time limited one. He has to get up for work at 5am. I like a date with a start and an end time it helps me relax. Well thats enough over thinking for one day… On to the real world.
Side note, I told my Mom about it and she was not too happy, First- I met him on the internet. My sister met a guy off the internet and they dated for a while and she could not stand the guy. He had a very different religion. Second- I told her he was Hispanic. I do not think that my mom thinks all white “True Blooded” americans are superior, just that everyone should stick with their kind. I think she would have just as much problem with me dating a northerner to tell the truth. Funny Lady. She is all judge no bite!
